Why I have been off social media

Hello my friend,

How are you doing?

Two weeks ago, my husband and I welcomed our second daughter — and it’s been such a beautiful journey so far.

Watching my first daughter try to learn her sister’s name 😅, kissing my newborn one million times a day, changing diapers, and feeding every 30 minutes… I’m loving this newborn phase, and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

At this rate, I just want to dash my toddler to my husband and keep this newborn for myself 😅😅😅.

For the past year, I’ve intentionally lived a life free of social media. I deleted all my apps (except WhatsApp) and turned off all notifications on my phone.

I’m not really sure why I took that step, but I know this: I’ve made more progress in the last one year than in all the years before.

Taking time off gave me more time for my priorities and less temptation to compare. And honestly, it’s been so beautiful and peaceful.

Over time, I started getting messages from people asking why I’ve been gone so long — some even asked, “Why are you hiding?”

And yes, I’ve been hiding. But I like it here.

I’ve used that time to lean into GOD — spending more time in prayer and HIS word. I’ve spent more time with my family, and I’ve invested time in growing my work and my staff. And it’s been beautiful.

So beautiful that I wish I could stay offline forever.

But now, I’m entering a season where I need to ease back in.

And today, I just want to encourage you: If you’re in a season where you need clarity — on what to do, where to work, how to effectively juggle work and family, or even what GOD is saying to you — please take time off.

When my first daughter arrived, I realized that I needed space to figure things out. She came when GOD asked me to transition my nonprofit into a free school. I was suddenly a first-time mum and a first-time school owner. It was a lot to handle.

I tried to juggle it all, but it just wasn’t working. I was constantly overwhelmed. And honestly, the regular content I saw online didn’t help — seeing “senior mums” juggling everything so flawlessly made me compare myself unfairly.

Eventually, I knew something had to give. And social media was the easiest thing to let go of.

So I dropped it — without guilt or shame. And today, I am so glad I did. That decision has given me more time, clarity, opportunities, and peace of mind.

Now, as I ease back in, it feels difficult. I’ve gotten so used to not being there. But I know I need to show up again.

So, my friend, if you’re in a season where you need to figure things out — your career, your calling, your choices, or your priorities — take time off.

Don’t let the fear of missing out make you miss your destiny moments. Time is moving. Life is happening. Seasons will pass — and you don’t want to miss the ones that matter the most.

Let your desire for a better, brighter future be stronger than the temporary pleasure that social media gives.

Take it from me — I’m here, typing this with so much satisfaction and joy for who I am, where I am, and all that GOD is doing in me and through me.

Nothing bad will happen to you if you take time off. Trust me.

You’ll return at your own pace — bigger, better, and wiser.

Take time off. Figure things out at your pace and give yourself peace of mind.

Now that I’m coming back… please like my post and leave a comment o — because stepping out of my shell again is not easy 🙈

This message isn’t for everyone. It’s for those who need clarity, need space, or just need to breathe.

Leave social media. Sort things out. We’ll be here when you get back!

I hope this was helpful.

See you next time.
Till then, stay fabulous.

With Love,
Aramide.